Conflict
I've become increasingly frustrated with someone recently. Sometimes you come to a point where it's hard to see anything but that one thing about the person. This person can really get under my skin. I don't want to be passive, avoiding conflict. Conflict isn't necesarily a negative force. It's a force for change which can be both positive or negative. Without conflict there is just atrophy. The key is understanding the proper and improper ways of dealing with and initiating conflict.
I have been dealing with my conflict with this other person in an improper manner, which has also caused them to retaliate in an equally improper manner. I still think my feelings should be expressed, but in a way that's more constructive and constitutes more meekness (namely having an actual conversation about my beef with this person).